Providing families with comprehensive and holistic midwifery support through pregnancy, birth, and beyond!
Hello, I'm
Aubrey McMillan.
Welcome to Oak & Clove Midwifery. I’m so glad you’re here!
There is something deeply transformative about the journey into motherhood. It is not just about bringing a baby into the world, it is about being held through it.
I offer homebirth midwifery and placenta encapsulation services to families throughout Middle Tennessee. As a Licensed Certified Professional Midwife (CPM-TN), my work is rooted in holistic, autonomy-centered care. I believe your voice matters. Your intuition matters. And your experience deserves to be held with intention, respect, and deep support. My role is to walk alongside you offering guidance, presence, and steady care as you make decisions for yourself and your baby.
My path into midwifery began during my first pregnancy. I remember sitting in a childbirth class, completely captivated like something in me had awakened. That quiet curiosity grew into something undeniable as I experienced the birth of my first daughter and felt, firsthand, the power of being supported, seen, and trusted in birth. It changed me and from that moment on I knew this work was not just an interest, it was a calling.
Since entering the birth world in 2017, I’ve had the honor of supporting over 250 families. I have witnessed birth unfold in many forms: gentle and undisturbed, intense and unpredictable, sacred and raw. My experience includes VBAC, twin, and breech births, as well as more complex moments such as shoulder dystocia, nuchal hands and cords, posterior positioning, meconium, fetal distress, placental abruption, uterine rupture, and postpartum hemorrhage. These experiences have shaped me not just in skill, but in presence. They have taught me how to remain grounded in the unknown, to respond with clarity, and to hold space even when birth asks more of us.
A little about me: I live just west of Nashville with my husband and our two daughters, and I also carry the memory of a baby we lost along the way. My own journey—a cesarean, a miscarriage, and a homebirth VBAC—has deeply informed the way I care for others. I understand both the beauty and the vulnerability of this path and I meet families with that knowing. Outside of birth work, I find joy in the simple things—hiking a quiet trail, crafting with my children, getting lost in a puzzle, or unwinding with a favorite show. I’m also passionate about holistic living and love incorporating toxin-conscious choices, herbal support, and homeopathy into daily life.
It is a profound honor to be invited into this season with families. Birth is not just a moment, it is a threshold. And you deserve to walk through it feeling supported, respected, and deeply held.
If you’re planning a homebirth, I would love to connect and hear your story!
What Aubrey's clients are saying:
"Aubrey's honest and transparent heart and wisdom from many years of child-care and child development experience make her the ultimate asset, BUT her ability to multi-task is what truly sets her apart. I have never seen anyone perform so many functions such as feeding, preparing meals, cleaning up and being present on the floor playing and loving on children the way Aubrey does. She is a blessing to our family and any others she comes across."
Holly
“Aubrey helped me achieve my goal of experiencing a vaginal birth without anesthesia intervention. Her readiness and support enabled me to focus and push through at the points when I truly thought I couldn't. Aubrey also provided valuable guidance to my husband who wanted to be present and supportive during labor for me.”As a side note, Aubrey was able to capture some of the most precious photos and videos during labor for us. I feel so lucky to be able to revisit such intimate moments in time that would have otherwise escaped me with everything that was going on at the time. We truly recommend her services.”
Summer
"Aubrey has been a lifesaver for my labor in supporting both me and my husband. She helped me achieve my goal of a natural birth. Though our recovery was a little different than planned, she stayed with us through our transfer and reassured us and explained everything to us in a way we could understand. Postpartum I could not have asked for a better resource to ask all my first-time mom questions and concerns to. All around great person and stellar mom! Thank you so much!!!"
Jessica
"Aubrey is an all-around great person to talk to about birth and babies as well as the trials and tribulations of motherhood. Her rock-solid emotional strength and compassion are exactly what you need in a birth and postpartum support person. I highly recommend her. She is a fantastic doula!"
Helen
"I was very fortunate to have Aubrey as my doula during the birth of my second little and throughout the pregnancy. She was informative and answered any questions I had about wanting a more natural birth as well as after our little man's delivery. I definitely recommend her to anyone expecting."
Sarah
"When I was looking for a doula, I wanted to find someone passionate about VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean). Aubrey understands the need for VBAC birth support in our community. Aubrey is so supportive and understanding. She truly emulates the meaning of the word doula. I am so glad she could be present at my birth to help to keep me calm and cool when I felt like I was going to fall apart.”
Victoria
“We are so grateful that Aubrey has been our doula! From day 1 of pregnancy, she has provided positive energy, professional support and loving encouragement for both me and my husband. Her child birthing class was very thorough and gave us a greater sense of being prepared for the big day. I love that there are never any "silly questions" with Aubrey. As a first-time mama, I have learned such a great deal from her. I highly recommend Aubrey and Birth of Life doula services!”
Kitty
“Aubrey is such a compassionate kind sweet soul! Very educated with birth! She has such a calming aspect about her that makes you feel safe and cared for. She truly wanted to make sure I had the best birthing experience and would take all the worry out of my hands. I had encapsulation done with my placenta with her she was very thorough and informative (& my pills work wonderfully!) Anyone would be so lucky to have her for a doula!”
Whitney
“I am so thankful we had Aubrey with us on my daughter’s birthday and the time leading up to it. To say she went above and beyond is an understatement!!! Having a doula during your birth is something EVERYONE should have. Aubrey was also there for my husband to help him when he had to leave me. Words will never be able to describe how appreciative of everything you did for my family!”
Brittany